![Expressing our gratitude verbally or serving our parents a cup of tea are ways to show filial affection towards them. [Lim Su Nguan]](/images/Articles/RW/2023/KL_20230514_lsy01a_389.jpg "Expressing our gratitude verbally or serving our parents a cup of tea are ways to show filial affection towards them. [Lim Su Nguan]")
Expressing our gratitude verbally or serving our parents a cup of tea are ways to show filial affection towards them. However, for Chong Sau Mun, he is uncertain if he will be able to perform these acts of filial piety every day...
During the 3-in-1 celebration of Buddha's Day, Mothers' Day and Tzu Chi Day on May 13 and 14, 2023, Tzu Chi KL & Selangor thoughtfully organised activities for children to express their gratitude to their parents.
At the filial piety zone, parents were seated in rows of low white chairs, while their children stood beside them, listening attentively as the emcee recounted the various hardships of raising a child. As the emcee’s voice faded, the lights gradually dimmed, and a soul-stirring song, “Where Has the Time Gone” filled the air. The touching melodies and lyrics moved many to tears.
“I am sorry, I am sorry!” With tears streaming down his face, Chong Sau Mun, a frail figure wearing a cap, knelt before his mother, Ng Kim Foong. His mother reached out and held his hands, her own tears flowing freely.
Despite his physical weakness, Sau Mun pushed through, wiping his mother’s hands, serving her tea, and expressing his heartfelt gratitude. The mother and son embraced each other, tears inter-mingling, as Sau Mun, trembling, stood up and spoke words of gratitude and remorse to his mother.
Sau Mun, who had undergone chemotherapy, faces not only physical weakness, but also difficulties in speech. He has to slow down his pace of speaking to ensure clarity. He shared with a sense of guilt that his mother had worked hard to raise him and his two younger sisters, and still has to continue to take care of him as he is ill now.
As a Tzu Chi Commissioner, his mother comforted and reassured him that she has the support and care of their family and brothers and sisters in Dharma. Throughout his illness and treatment, fellow volunteers have offered their prayers, and some have even observed a vegetarian diet, dedicating their merits to Sau Mun’s recovery and well-being. The caring and blessings from fellow volunteers have alleviated Kim Foong’s worries, granting her the strength to face life’s impermanence with greater courage.
Not knowing how long he will live, Sau Mun could only cherish each moment with his loved ones. He placed his hand on his mother's shoulder and posed for a precious picture with his younger sister's family. Despite feeling melancholic, he smiled faintly, hoping that his mother will remember his happy smiles instead of his tears in the future.
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"...Where has the time gone? Before I knew it, I have grown old without fully experiencing my youth. Raising children throughout my life, my mind is filled with their cries and laughter..."
The song "Where Has the Time Gone" encapsulates the profoundness of parents' kindness. As children, the only way we can repay their kindness is to appreciate their love and sacrifices, show our gratitude, and fulfill our filial duties now rather than later.
