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Filial Piety - The Foremost of All Wholesome Deeds

The young children performed the offering ceremony with solemnity. [Photo by Teng Pick Cheang]

“Thank you, Mum and Dad, for bringing me into this world and raising me.” This heartfelt sentiment filled the air with love and warmth at the Buddha Bathing Ceremonies hosted by Da Ai Kindergartens (Kepong and Pandan Indah) on May 18, 2024.

The Da Ai Kindergartens' Buddha Bathing Ceremonies saw a gathering of over 230 teachers, children, and parents, who came together to honour the Buddha and appreciate his teachings. There were also a series of parent-child activities such as children identifying their parents’ hands by touch, massaging their parents’ hands, and offering them homemade jelly.

The posters reading "When you are old..." and "Grateful to have you..." evoked a deep appreciation for parental care and love. [Photo by Teng Pick Cheang]
Despite their young age, the children performed the ritual of bathing the Buddha in an orderly manner. [Photo by Ong Siew Geok]

The most touching moment came when the children lovingly knelt before their parents and gently bathed their feet. This seemingly simple act was imbued with deep emotion and boundless gratitude, moving many parents to tears.

Parent Long Lay Peng shared that she often tears up at Tzu Chi events, and this occasion was no exception. She felt especially warm when her children bathed her feet, massaged her hands, and fed her. However, she regretted that her mother is no longer around for her to show the same care. Now, she cherishes moments with her father, not wanting to be regretful for not spending time with the elders.

The children offered their parents an unforgettable foot bath experience. [Photo by Look Foot Seong]
The five-star massage melted the parents' worries away. [Photo by Ong Siew Geok]

“The most important thing is to be grateful to our parents for bringing us together. We only share this familial bond in this lifetime, so we must always remember to appreciate it,” said parent Kelun Gan.

Parent Yin Choi Ying believes that filial piety means making parents feel assured that their children know what they are doing. She explained, “We cannot accompany our children forever and can only leave them with the seeds of filial piety and compassion that we have planted.”

A parent was deeply moved upon reading the letter from his child, realising the child was aware of his mistakes. [Photo by Look Foot Seong]
The children's heartfelt letters brought tears to many parents' eyes. The parents, too, took the time to write letters to their own parents. [Photo by Teng Pick Cheang]

Filial piety is a lifelong lesson. The kindergartens’ Buddha Bathing Ceremonies brought everyone to reflect on their actions. To quote Master Cheng Yen, “Filial piety is to serve our parents well and, on a grander scale, to serve the world well.”

 

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